Tuesday, March 20, 2007

INFATUATION...

It is defined as the "state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or addictive love".

CHARACTERISTICS:

urgency

intensity

anxiety

sexual desire

It starts with physical attraction and eventually it turns into extreme absorption over another person.

The relationship may have negative characteristics mainly because of it being built on infatuation such as:

insecurity

distrust

lack of confidence

feeling of being threatened

nagging doubts

unanswered questions

It is basically based on fantasy and contributes to the self-devaluation because of the constant need for affirmation. It also includes the point wherein the person needs the other for "completeness"

People in these situations sometimes rush into things like marriage and sex out of fear of losing one another. Infatuation may eventually grow into love as long as the parties involve learb how to allow each other to grow.

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